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Wednesday, September 07, 2011

One of Many of My Experiences Painted on a Canvas .....


Morning my lovelies, I hope this boootiful day (all other days too) brings warmth and sunshine your way…lots of love Moi....

I have been contemplating about some of the topics that I have been wanting to write about, since I have reviled the Identity of the blog I was being careful and being kind :-) is more like it…. When it dawned upon me that why do that!! You all know ... I am spoilt and a princess :-)  ….

So here it is… we got back from KL on Friday and decided to go out….. well as many know we went to Left Bank  ( this restaurant & bar ) used to be one of the best in town -  now well its going down the drain (to be blogged about later)… and as usual we have to bump into ppl (Muscat is a very small place  and we all go to the same places) now one of the couples we bumped into were The Sticky’s …. Ok a quick update on them –  Mr. Sticky made peace with us as later I asked the Mrs. To let it go and start a new chapter since I missed my friend (u have to read the posts to understand this) we hugged and kissed all good …. Well no!!!  I JUST DON’T GET IT !!! ….  We had bumped into each other a few times since we have the same circle of well ppl we know and the Bitchiness is still their …..  She went through a really bad period recently where I felt really bad for her and called and msgd to check on her and her husband…. I thought maybe she would figure it out that I still care and wish her well…. Nothing!!!

So my hubby and I say hello “muah” , “muah” on the cheeks and she is cold and rude only speaks well to my husband – WTF (excuse my language)….

Here is my question?:

Aren’t  friends supposed to support u through good times and bad….. Well I did that!!! And this is what I get-  Mrs. Sticky trying to put me down, making fun of me !!!  My husband keeps telling me, ignore it – which I do many times …

Now I say why should I be the one to help them get through their insecurities?

Hmmm … therefore I have decided to that it is best to cut all ties…. Why should I keep her or anyone else’s negativity around me or my hubby … or be the one to put up with it…..
So now comes out the list in which names are recorded and noted as the UNGRATEFULS, therefore  : not to befriend or set boundaries not worth it just ELIMINATE … J


The strongest principle of growth lies in human choice.
George Eliot
English novelist (1819 - 1880)

5 comments:

Rachellabelle - My Hips Don't Lie said...

Emotional vampires deserve the proverbial stake through the heart. Buh-bye!

Reggie said...

Nice post.

The quote at the end of your post is something to think about.

Melissa said...

I am so glad that you visited my new blog and were so kind to write me.

Your blog is absolutely splendid.

Melissa

Texan after UAE said...

lovely little part of your bloggy world. :) :) Well, we all should do what makes us happy in our life. If keeping her friendship makes you unhappy, then you did the right thing. Smile, happy looks good on you..

Kisses and hugs :) :) :)

Omani Jewel said...

Thank you for your support :-)

@Rach: I agree, need to do that to a few more ppl :-)
@Reggie: Thank u
@M: ur welcome and thank u...
@Texan: Thank u :-)