Thursday, September 24, 2009
My shopping SPREE
QUICKIES:
1. As a bridezilla on the loose I lost it with a few ppl. Idiots... Will explain later.
2. Invited my friend and her husband - the one who I was upset with... Gave it my last shot to make peace... Let's wait and see
3. Waiting for the matress for the bed ... Our new home ready
4. Going to go shopping again here in Oman soon
5. Clothes ready
He who would travel happily must travel light.
Antoine de Saint-Exupery
French writer (1900 - 1944)
Sent from my BlackBerry® smartphone from Nawras
The World of the BlackBerry
Sent from my BlackBerry® smartphone from Nawras
Thursday, July 02, 2009
Life & Love Is Glorious Cycle …..!!
Well… I do apologize again for disappearing on all of you like that again but here are the reasons: .. am sure will be forgiven :
1. In the last 5 months 2 of my best friends under went kidney surgery …. The first one was the recipient – doing well thank God … and the second one was a donor to her sister both sisters are up and about……
2. Now the 2nd reason is the Love of my life and I got ENGAGED … yes well we are actually planning a wedding ………** Blush** Blush** ------- o sod that Yipieeeeeeeeeeee !!!! am so excited and lost at the same time ….. so many things to do and no time at all …. We looking at 4 -5 months from now ….
So my lovelies I hope I am forgiven ……….
Quickies:
*Families both of them :-) are fine
*The people I know well leave that for later ….
*Work … happy
A great marriage is not when the 'perfect couple' comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.
Dave Meurer
Monday, April 06, 2009
Self-respect is the fruit of discipline..(2).!!
Ok lets see for now we talk about ohh … hmmm wonder if u remember Mr. and Mrs. Sticky under the post Self-respect is the fruit of discipline...!!
Well am very happy for them … they got married but wat has surprised us is their attitude…
I was the one who took the proposal from the boys side to her father nice isn’t it but wat happened was a shocker.............. they got engaged didn’t tell me till they were having the gathering for all at a restaurant and I was the last to find out … and to be invited …. I congratulated her but my better half had already prior the the last minute invitation had already accepted another one with some other friends luckily we ended up in the same place … anyway I went up to her was happy for her and congratulated her…. I felt slightly hurt coz I thought she was like family…..
Now during this period we had a few differences which we tried to put aside….
She decided that she wanted to meet all of us together and arranged for a little gat
hering in a tent with the hubbly bubbly (smoking the shisha as we call it here) Me: “hi there sweetie how are u? thank u so much for the invite … I hope u got out reply (it was via txt)…!”
She: “yes thank u it has been a while”
Me: “yes it has!...anyway the reason I called (and I don’t mean to be difficult I promise) – and we both laughed- is that it is really humid and hot outside my honey and I were there a couple of nights ago and it was unbearable!! So how about we make a reservation inside too (as plan b) a back up just in case we cant sit outside… if that is ok with u”
She: laughing “ sure why not …. If it does become too hot we can all opt for sitting in”
Me: “ brilliant!! We see u there 8 pm and the reservation is in your name ?”
She: “yes.”
And we both said our goodbyes and hung up……. i thought it was a normal conversation…
Anyway we reached the location at the time given to us and a few others too and we asked the waiter we are here under the the reservation name (of my friend or so I thought she was) and he directed us to the table, and we sat …. Five of us before anyone else came …..
Now 2 girls who were sitting with us and we know them they were trying to call her to find out where she was and no answer in the mean time he fiancée also showed up waved his hand in the many er for saying hi and walked away with her brother (they were together) now at this point we all wondered wat the hell was going on and tried calling them both but no answer – by this time it was getting really hot so we decided to make do with plan b and went and sat inside since we couldn’t find any of them and txtd her to tell her we were in inside not sitting out…. And we all ended up sitting inside since she wasn’t answering and it was too hot to be outside and the coolers were not helping…….
And there it blew up and she just wouldn’t speak to me ……!!! I didn’t understand so I tried to speak to her to break the ice but still couldn’t get through….. so I left it at that…..
And then I had a gathering a dinner at home for about 60+ ppl and during this period her fiancée had a problem at his job and no one new…. And the company that does the PR for his company their staff are family friends so they were there and the Saturday after my dinner the fiancée picture was in the paper due to his job….. I was shocked no one new ….. so then my better half and I get blamed for not telling her about it or warning them…. For gods sake how could u warn someone about something that you don’t know anything about …..!!!!
Now we have common friends so we say hi and chat and laugh things seemed to be fine ….. up until I heard that she had set a wedding date I was really happy for her but wasn’t invited neither was my better half…. And then the reception too not invited and here I felt bad….. coz then I realized that during her entire relationship she was using me and that is all…..
And now I don’t even want o be on the same table as her….. and I don’t think I was wrong in telling her that her now husband then boyfriend was cheating on her but then maybe I was !!!!
Talk sense to a fool and he calls you foolish.
Euripides (484 BC - 406 BC), The Bacchae, circa 407 B.C.
Sunday, October 19, 2008
I Have Fallen Out of Love with You!!!!
Can a person fall out of love!!!? ...
It is upto the person what they want to bring into the relationship darkness or sunlight, water it with water or give the pant poison, protect it or leave it for the insects to feed on it ….
Recently I have heard the statement mentioned and relationships withering away and its always either the person is afraid of commitment (already discussed earlier in April under the topic ‘ Unless commitment is made, there are only promises and hopes... but no plans ’) or we/I have fallen out of love …. Please.. really i mean come on...... and seriously never blame one side (in most cases) it takes 2 to tango….. so my lovelies what do u think?
Saturday, October 18, 2008
There are those who are ones’ True Friends and the rest are not bad ppl, but are now just Acquaintances
For a while now I have been doing something that I have tried to avoid and that is to whine to him about ppl we know or I know …. But the thing is that when something happens it happens in a situation we are both involved in……
An Example of what happened on Wednesday at work…I went and had tea with ‘a friend’ (who we will refer to as A) she doesn’t work with me but we work I the same area and floor anyway … so I got my tea and sat with her and she start complaining about men woman and relationships and sex… so then she started talking about common ppl we know and they relationships…
Me: ‘so how u and all doing are haven’t seen chatted with u in a while’
A: ‘am good, got what I need in life now days and am satisfied, but u know after B broke up with the bf she is just depressing to be with, and is not accepting the fact that he will not come back to her and that is over’
Me: ‘poor thing, what to do love is blind, but she needs support and a reality wake up call’
A: ‘I told her open her eyes and see that, the excuse of his parents not wanting her (after 3 yrs) is lame and a lie and the truth is that he has fallen out of love from her & wont come back … that it’s hopeless for her to wait for him’
Me: ‘not all men lie about such things many men do but not all of then us such lame lies and as for the bf I don’t know him well enough to make such a statement, and ppl don’t just fall out of love’
A: ‘u girls are hopeless (including you- refers to me), ur men/ these men are not serious about u girls and ur just never going to learn that all men as ASSHOLES’
Me: ‘told her she was a bitch and didn’t need to involve my relationship in this conversation’
(As u all know I am with a good man like I said before he makes my eyes twinkle, puts a smile on my face and makes my heart skip a beat…and so much more, so as u may have guessed I am not happy all of this or her … and she is the same person with whom I am upset with coz she has been making stupid statements like that around me about my better half.) now this is icing on the cake about the amount of things she has said….. and not just her many others and the best part is that they are both of our friends (his and mine) and I discuss these issues with him but now it is tiring me out.
George Washington (1732 - 1799)
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
I have decided not let the Coffee Brew.....
Now for the Quickies (I know u all have missed them):
- My family … are fine (thank god)
- Uhem ... He (the unminced mince pie) is also fine (thank god) *BLUSH*BLUSH*
- The SFC’s well hmmm…
- Ohh yes the new friends good & not so good - still have to wire about this (cant wait)
- My bestest friend who left me and relocated to another war zone has finally decided to go home at least no danger. Allhamdullilah
- Ohhh.... as for the vanity heheh its still there and am still the QUEEN… heheheh
- I also have to update all of u on The Crazed Rabid Dog who I used to work for
And my birthday updates yet to come - Oh My God ... nearly forgot... i have a young admirer (19 yrs old) also to be discussed
In the right light, at the right time, everything is extraordinary.
Aaron Rose
Monday, September 15, 2008
It was once Said: O, beware, my lord, of jealousy!
Well well well … hello there my lovelies… first of all let me tell you all about my weekend…. Like I mentioned I was busy… and the reason being was that it is the Holy Month of Ramadan where we fast I had a gathering of over 45 ppl over at my place which started of with all of us breaking the fast then eating and a seating outside with candles etc and Smoking Shisha (the Hubbly Bubbly) outside in but within the premises of home… thank god it was a success the food was all made by MOI it took me 4 days to prepare anyway it all went off boootifully (of course it would we had organised it) hehehe ohh come on am sure u all missed my vain self ;-) ….
Now we come to the issue at hand which is that ever since I have started dating ppl seem to have a problem … ok yes I know what u all are going to say IGNORE them … That is exactly what I am doing … so then I started getting messages as Face book msgs, sms’s on my mobile and calls on the mobile international and local numbers - (u have to understand that the international numbers and local numbers cant be traced to the Ex.) from The Ex. (who I don’t know and have never met and who became an ex way before he and I ever met so i gave her the benefit of the doubt : though it was difficult coz everything pointed to her)
anyway the msgs etc Said:
* “leave him, he is mine”
* “leave him for her” (name and no name stated)
* “you bitch, you whore”
* “I will ruin you” etc
Am sure you get the picture now, this went on for months and I mean over 4 months continuously….. My Angel and I didn’t fight or have arguments (we knew what was going on and decided to deal with it together and talk about it), he stood by me all the way and vice verse, and then we finally sorted the issue and it stopped …..(so we thought) and ever since yesterday i have started receiving blank call (missed calls) again from a local number - which i am happy to say that i managed to trace and Guess what... the number is the Company mobile where she works (info i got earlier during the day) ... by now i am pissed off i can go to the police but it will look bad for the girl, i have not told him yet i have just been a bit upset since yesterday and he does not know why, it is not his fault but i am entitled to be upset. actually very upset an d jealousy is not part of my nature...... ohh well i don't know what i am going to do.... but any decision that will be made will be done with a cool head and not in anger.
When anger rises, think of the consequences.
Confucius (551 BC - 479 BC)
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
There is music even in the beauty, and the silent note which Cupid strikes, far sweeter than the sound of an instrument
So I do promise that I will write soon well next week since I am busy this weekend preparing for an Iftar (small feast) at my place so wont be able to write about anything till next week once its over I need to relax then start.
Ovid (43 BC - 17 AD), Amores
Friday, May 23, 2008
I Refuse To Be Bored ... Coz Am NOT Boring....
• An emergency meeting with firm (related to work- damage control that the TRASH caused)
• Lunch with well hmmm ;-) – yes my lovelies guess guess guess
• Then out to the beach with friends to relax till dinner
But did it happen NO .... after the emergency meeting that lasted a couple of hours I was home for lunch (and was working through that too) and then back to the office with my colleague to try and sort things out till about 8 pm …
so what happened in the office we had another meeting with some technical specialists and then we did some work and tried but we I think are still in disbelief of having encountered the TRASH and what happened the electricity went off and we found a dead cockroach yucky eeeewww …. And so we decided to leave…
So of course there was no outing I just went straight home … and I was home … and my parents were out and so was the maid and driver … I was home alone heheh …. i thought of the movie home alone ;-)…
but just imagine I had to carry my stuff all the way to my room...(ohh come one ppl u know that it was coming hehehe couldn’t help it ) my royal blood had not surface till now so I felt it needed toooo … heheheheh ;-) what to do my vanity prevails at times heheh ….
So any I decided that since I was alone I might as well write about my day which was ok can’t complain…. So now I decided that I will start and what happened just as I finished the 4 lines the house was full everyone was back and of course I had to stop and then continued to write the rest of this post …..
but in reality I can’t seem to focus much since my thought are wondering to a particular person who is a part of me and whom I am terribly missing you see he puts a smile on my face every day morning noon and night …. And like I thank god for my parents and family ….. I also thank him for making this person a part of me and my life……… he does make my world boootiful …. Alhamdulillah ….
However, I can’t have a long phone conversation with him but I do enjoy talking to his phone hehehehe hmmmm so I told we need to go into relationship on phone counseling heheheh we both laughed …… with is in mind I bid u all good night and sweet dreams now I go and bother him with my call …. ;-) am sure he has missed me:P byeeeeeeeeee
Thursday, May 22, 2008
He Told Us That He Got Where HE is Today Through HARD Work - WE should have Asked "WHOSE"!!!
So let’s see (hehe I guess my ramblings didn’t go on for as long as they may have or has it?) …. So much for the statement made above… but anyway I had initially wanted to write about privacy but then I decided against since that is a topic on its own and shouldn’t be merged into other topics as I usually do (well my lovelies there u have it my ranting and rambles that go on forever and that I know you all looooove hehehe ) ok ok ok….
Am sure you all know that The Queen works … so one day I decided I had, had enough of working with an eccentric person – who believed red bull (the drink) was NON VEG, and extract and enzymes of bulls (the animal) ……….. heheheh ohh and that France and Lebanon the countries shared the same boarder…
The company is great… but u know the saying 1 rotten apple spoils the lot well thank god he is a quarantined trashy parasite…. Whom we hope we(we as in my ppls and me) have gotten rid off….. trust me he is a unique species from God only know where… a psychiatric unit /team would not want to touch or get close to …. So basically the above has kept me busy from blogging like before ….
From the new so called boss – TRASH the following are some words he uses:
· Qualy = Quality spelt as qualiti
· Autolise/autolise = utilize
· Flowers = flour
· Hidely = to hide / behind his back
Oh and yes he brainstorms with himself… (no comment and if I remember anything will keep u posted)
Ok and yes I will admit my work is a small part in comparison to (shyly which he can make me feel) my Angel sorry ppl I can’t refer to him as a meat pie coz he isn’t he is my very own angel who:
© puts a smile on my face every day morning noon and night
© makes me heart skip not just one beat many beats… aaahhhh ;-)
and soo much more that like I said before would go on and on and on…. (hmm while typing the on and on bit I thought of the Ariston add from yester year……….. ok YES ppl It happened and he has kept me from being in contact with all my lovelies since he takes president over all… now now no need to be upset or jealous coz I still do love all of ya…. And since its 4 20 am I think I will bid all my lovelies goodnight /good morning
Quickies:
- My family … are fine (thank god)
- The SFC’s well we are now at WAR aha … don’t worry am not giving up … I am not going to lose this time
- Met a couple amazing ppl from ksa a pilot and a presenter – topic for another post
- Ohh and reunited with a friend pimpheny…. Defiantly a topic for another day too
- Ohhh.... as for the vanity heheh its still there and am still the QUEEN… heheheh
- Hmmmm I know you are all curious … yes yes yes wont ever (inshalaah) mince him… He is my angel
To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides
David Viscott
Get all the fools on your side and you can be elected to anything.
Frank Dane
Monday, January 28, 2008
Parents Give Us Life and the Dimensions and Tools to Live it...
Anyway …. So we had a family gathering we went to out a group of us family and friends and while my dad was eating I noticed a slight tremor in his hands …. (Ok we know our parents are growing older – and aging is a process we can’t stop) and a few days earlier something with my mom … she is getting less sleep....
(Al hamdullilah as for health etc they are fine) but we worry just like they do for us … and every time I think of it my eyes swell up in tears because seriously we all have wonderful parents but I have seen that many ppl don’t really appreciate what they have done for us …. i have been blessed with my parents ....
I have seen friends talk badly about their parents also yell at them speak disrespectfully to them … and it pains me to see that….. I am not saying I am perfect we all have had out moment especially when younger but as a person grows so should their behavior and in a lot of cases I have not seen that …
however there is one person very dear to me and close to me for whom I have a lot of respect for (for many reasons – yes another topic) but a big part of it is coz of the respect I have seen him give his family …..
every day, the first thing I do after thanking god for everything he has blessed me with, I will without fail tell my parents that I love them…. I have been doing this for years now I can’t remember for how long really …..
I think I rambled on about them coz they are important and I haven’t really mentioned them much in my posts and I guess I just wanted to take an opportunity to thank my parents (my mom who does read this blogs but pretends it doesn’t exist) bless her…. And also for all the parents for being parents …. And also create and awareness that we should appreciate parents, family etc a lot more it seems to be dying away that bond with each generation….
Writing Gives Us the Illusion of Control... Or Does it !!
Yes there is so much to tell since my last post (which I believe has ruffled a few feathers)- stickies remember J anyway - up date on that will be in the next few post with a few other things …this post is basically to tell all my lovelies that please start reading again coz there is so much to tell ….
Quick Updates (have decided to call them quickies from now on) – and yes am saying it with a straight face: P well… now stop it I know what u all are like an no naughty thoughts J hehehe pweez .. So here goes
Quickies:
- My family … are fine (thank god)
- The SFC’s well we are not talking really … its just so difficult … don’t worry am not giving up just need to discipline me self
- Made a few more new friends (good and not so good) – topic for another post
- My bestest friend who left has relocated to another war zone (I mean a lot of my stress is related to worrying about her)
- Ohhh.... as for the vanity heheh its still there and am still the QUEEN… heheheh
- Hmmmm I know you are all curious … HMMM I think… I will leave the Meat / Mince Pie alerts for later …. Let’s put it this way there is a possibility that I may have not minced 1 this time …
And the most important of all is Wishing All of YOU a HAPPY New Year
The empires of the future are the empires of the mind.
Sir Winston Churchill (1874 - 1965),
Monday, September 17, 2007
Self-respect is the fruit of discipline...!!
As many of u may remember and for those who have not yet read my blog … over the last few months I have written about friendship, relationships etc….
However what is about to be told is very close to my heart … we not only mine but other ppl as well….
Now as u all know … a couple of weeks ago I back from a holiday of a life time (which I will write and enlighten all of u about later … xxxx) and during that course we were only in touch with family (both my friend and myself) anyway when we arrived … a few of my very close friends just disappeared off the face of the earth puuff just like that … ohh yes if your all shocked can u imagine my reaction… it was this that made do a little ppl purifying (where I cleanse out my phone list off ppl who are no longer important to me – and to be on that list heheh its a big deal – for I must me extremely pissed off)
Now that was a brief of one of the things that took place and the other thing was related to a topic on relationships that I had written about in May titled: Do Women Want Sensitive Man!!! Ohhh yes the mince pie episodes have begun … yes my lovelies interesting stuff …..;)
TLC tender loving care …. Many emotions and act (heheheh ) now now I am fasting so please let me behave and don’t side track me as always :-)
we were back again to the sensitivity of the meat pies again… so now there is a mince pie and a meat pie who are how sticky and I am not joking when together in public or private they are all over each other that it is now over the top close friends are all sick of it ….
The point is this mince pie is in the category of one of my best friends and the meat pie too…. so when I came back from my oliday …. I wanted to meet her.... was excited etc then we all met up for dinner later at a restaurant…. And its been over 5 months that they have been dating (families of both have knowledge) and by then the novelty of public displays of affection are usually held to a basic or a minimum … please don’t misunderstand me I am NOT against public displays of affection if done tastefully on occasion ,
but this is how they are … they are on the net most of the working day then on the phone and then have lunch /dinner … or coffee every day and that’s sweet but ….. Until the families knew we were being used so that they would and could meet …. And now we would be so lucky if they would respond….. (Was very upset)…
So then what did the SWEET pwincess do she noticed something was not in place so she called up the mince pie (her friend) and asked if all was ok and etc what real friends do … and the mince pie said all well but just tired of work so I thought ok all well and since it was mentioned that we havened had coffee together on or own for a while I decided to ask her if she wanted to have coffee or meet up just us girlies (2) of us since we have don’t that in a while and what response did I get
Mince pie “ and not see him .. haram but I love him, I cant not see him”
Pwincess response (in shock) “ hope u have a nice evening, but u do what u need to do, take care and talk later”
ppl I was gob smacked really I was even in school I didn’t see this much stickiness its just sickening
Also just so that u know the mince pie involved is as bad … to the point that ….. both of them show major signs of insecurity coz if this bubble bursts then they have lost many friends (or are in the process of loosing many)
I am not jealous….. am just disgusted and feel used and I am not the only one ….
Updates:
- no meat pie alerts for all those who are curios
- the SFC’s are being eliminated
- made a some new friends (very lucky to have)
- bonding on a different level with my old friends
- and my family members are fine ……
- and last but not least..... I am still vain and a queen … and love u all hehehehe
The superior man, when resting in safety, does not forget that danger may come. When in a state of security he does not forget the possibility of ruin. When all is orderly, he does not forget that disorder may come. Thus his person is not endangered, and his States and all their clans are preserved.
Confucius
(551 BC - 479 BC)
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
I Grow More Intense As I Age ...;)
where do i begin .... hmmmm ok let start with this:
This is my water melon cake that my parents had for me heheh since i am supposed to be getting rid of the SFC's (SEXY FAT CELLS) we were laughing all through while cutting the really water melon ;)



Last but not least have to introduce u to some new friends of mine they are thowwwww thweet ....give also to me on my birthday...

so my lovelies this is all for now .... later i will tell all about my holiday ..... ohh yes and there u will have meat pies and mince pies and many more colourful pies hmmmmmm and maybe u might get an insight to what i was up tooo heheheh ;) sweet innocent me
The older I get, the more I feel almost beautiful...
Sharon Olds,
Oprah Magazine, May 2004
Thursday, June 21, 2007
While there's life, there's hope......& the show must go on....
So as u all know by now…. we were hit by hurricane GUNO … (the bastard)….. in a nutshell were all recovering and life is going on ….
Where do I start from ...... hmmm well life did go back to normal well close to it same issues and all….
Remember the initial meat pie mentioned in my post dated 28/03/07 under the title Character is what God and the Angels know of us ...Reputation is what men and women think of us... well heheh after being minced apparently he survived the mincing well not completely but still he is a fighter bless him and GUNO … anyway he called and tried to make conversation with me like where are u going on holiday… so I said that I am planning a holiday but not going to tell anyone where just yet …. So this is how the conversation went :
Main meat pie said “I am also coming with u !”
And I said “ no”
Then he said “why”
I said “ coz first I don’t travel with ppl and I like traveling on my own .. and second … in what capacity will u come with me ..!!!!??” heheh then to scare him off
Hehehe and it became very quiet and I said “ no need for stupidity… and pointless conversation… if u have nothing more to say … then good bye u have a nice day”
I think he was so shocked that he said by and then called me up the next day complaining how unimportant I made him feel (pooor poooor meat pie) hehehehe so I told him that its true he was not important and that was coz there was nothing between us …. Ohh yes u all might think I am cruel but sometime harsh measures are required to be used …. And I didn’t feel bad…..
Remember the other meat pie who followed me home mentioned in my post dated 19/05/07 under the title Being Followed ....! well he sent me roses red ones… unfortunately for him I detest red roses … I love white one…. But that was very sweet of him…….
Oh and last but not least the SFC’s anyone remember them well then u have to refer to my post dated 24/03/07 under the title The poor SFC's that burnt and vanished into the air... well I finally joined the GYM (yukhiiee) but it has to be done coz really I was loosing focus and now all good a new waist is on its way to be created….
There is so much more to write about but then I have to give u my stories in doses….
All my lovelies hope u all have a lovely weekend
Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former.
Albert Einstein (1879 - 1955)
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
2. GUNO: For Oman and the People: The future will be better tomorrow.
the government (all sectors) did an amazing job working round the clock to get things going again and they still are working round the clock to make Oman better that what it was .....
Thursday, June 07, 2007
1. GUNO: For Oman and the People: The future will be better tomorrow.
it has been a complete disaster...... what took 37 years to build was destroyed over night ..... muscat and the sharqiya region (basically all of oman that was affected) have been so badly hit.... ppls lives that were lost ( we still dont know the exact number of deaths ) .....so much was lost..... what was most upsetting was the fact that many ppl didnt take heed to the the warnings issued and when actually physically were told to move out of the dangerous areas they still didnt listen and many paid the price with lives and damage to there property......
it is just very annoying when the officials are trying to rescue and help and ppl are coming in the way .... especially now after all is over ppl are going sightseeing instead of remaining at home or trying to help ......
but many ppl are helping but still there are those who are being a liability .....
Samuel Johnson (1709 - 1784)
Wednesday, June 06, 2007
Tuesday, June 05, 2007
Cyclone Gonu hits Oman
Civil Defence apparatus mounts emergency response:
"Gonu is moving in a northwesterly direction towards Oman and likely to make landfall between Masirah and Ras al Hadd by Wednesday night or Thursday morning.
It is expected to bring very heavy rains and strong winds. Tidal waves along the coast can range from 4 to 10 metres. This combination of rain, wind and waves can pose a threat to low-lying areas.
We expect 150mm of rain to fall over a 24-hour period as the storm makes landfall."The tropical storm is expected to influence weather conditions as far north as Sohar on the Batinah coast.
Heavy rains, squally conditions and high waves are also forecast along the Muscat coast if the storm maintains strength even after making landfall.
Fishermen have been advised against venturing out to sea during the three-day storm alert. Gonu, since upgraded to a deadly Category 5 storm, will traverse diagonally towards the Sharqiya region and beyond over the Eastern and Western Hajar mountains before heading out into the Gulf of Oman from the North Batinah side.
In the process, the cyclonic storm is expected to trigger turbulent weather overland across Sohar, Liwa and Shinas, particularly over the mountains.Meanwhile, authorities are mounting a major emergency response in preparation for the looming cyclonic threat.
All security agencies and government ministries that make up the National Civil Defence Committee have been issued 'work orders' setting out their respective roles in providing active support to the emergency services. According to Lt Col Azhar al Kindy, Director of the Executive Office of the NCDC, around 4,000 ROP personnel, including those from the Special Forces and Police Academy, are being mobilised as part of the emergency effort triggered by Gonu's impending arrival.
"Units from the Sultan's Armed Forces (SAF) will be standing by, while the Royal Air Force of Oman and the ROP Air Wing will be ready to provide all necessary assistance. They will be available to supply food, medicine and provisions where needed. We are sending food and water to areas likely to be affected by the storm. Essential supplies are being stockpiled in these areas."
A number of schools, and even some government departments, on the mainland have been earmarked for use as temporary shelters during the period of the storm.
The ROP will set up three 'theatres of operation' in Muscat to help oversee the emergency and rescue effort once Gonu arrives.
Another 'threatre of operation' will also be set up jointly with the Ministry of Defence and other security agencies. The ROP is positioning ambulances in areas likely to hit by the cyclone.
Doctors attached to Health Ministry institutions in these areas are being urged to cancel all leave during the storm alert. With communications likely to be disrupted and telecom masts damaged, authorities plan to turn to wireless and satellite-based Thuraya communications.
GUNO

Saturday, June 02, 2007
All pleasures contain an element of sadness.
Hello hello hellooo…. My fans am heheheh …… I am very sorry to have been away from u all for so long ….. and the following are the reasons that I was kept away….
- I learnt my bestest friend was leaving (one of my angels) and was relocating so was gutted …. And am still gutted… I know this is life but …. Oh well I will have to live with it ….. and shes sad tooo
- Then I was on a course (ISO 9001) quality control stuff and had an exam fished that got through (al hamdulillah)
- And another very good friend of mine also left on Friday
- And many birthdays gone and on the way ….
So I hope u all forgive me for going off like that next time I will try and at least let u all know.......
Lord, make me an instrument of Your peace!
Where there is hatred let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
Where there is sadness, joy.
Saint Francis of Assisi (1181 - 1226)
Monday, May 21, 2007
Does a Wise Man/Woman Carry there Possessions ... ie the other half ...
------> CLINGY MEAT PIES….
I don't know about other women but I'm not very keen on clingy men. …….I find them too..... uh, sticky for lack of a better term. HEHEHEH .....
Anyway……. to further elaborate on the clingy-ness of a man…… I'd define it as something -- er.... someone who's too mushy……… shouldn't that be reserved for mince pies?
We women specie are the ones who are expected to be extra sweet and uh, let's say……..gooey……….. Hahaha.......I've always thought so anyway …. It true…...
I guess what I'm getting at is that I like my man to be less dependent on me for attention….. Don't get me wrong…….. I like getting his attention…… putting emphasis on 'getting'…… which signifies the action needed to acquire such……. I see it as a challenge on my part and once I get what I want, I like the satisfying feeling of getting it…… This also means that the guy will be willing to give it tooo….. of course……
And I reckon…… the more the guy can surprise me…….the more I'd find him attractive.
Oh, well. Where is he? Hehe
What am trying to say is that his whole day should not revolve around me ….coz being clingy to me will make me walk.....………
they should not be helpless & useless without that the other half to control........ I believe that these kind of ppl be it meat pies or mince pies need to learn to be on their own…… to entertain themselves and to make one self happy about themselves instead of depending on another person for happiness…….. If u are this type of a person …….look around.......u do not need to depend on the other person (man/woman)…....u do not need to be around ur other half everyday……..give them some ****ing space! give urself some space to get to know who u are as a person!
See after reading this many must have thought mixed clingy with romantic please don’t confuse the 2 ……. Showing ur affection for ur other half and making sure that they are priority and soing special things (suprises) I love that heheheh… on a regular basis in not clingy it good old fashioned .... People need to have lives outside of thier partner ……….. no matter how much they love them.....
Saturday, May 19, 2007
Being Followed ....!
so yes on Thursday I left work on the whole I been in a good mood generally speaking … anyway so while driving back home with my blue toothy on and talking to my friend we were confirming the plans for the evening and I started laughing and I told her that I was sorry but there was this car a 4 W drive …. And he had a stickers on “if u want to know me ask about me” … and I started laughing I mean at that moment I found it funny it was witty … not the standard “no fear” or “scorpions” etc am sure u all know what I am talking about ….. anyway an to top it all he cute ….;) anyway so I continued talking but he spotted me laughing … now I usually don’t laugh or show any signs and all but I couldn’t help it …. So guess what happened next ..of course he followed me …. But gave up after awhile during all this I didn’t notice that another car was following me too…. So seriously come on ppl anyway I parked near my house and he stopped his car and this is how the conversation went:
meat pie: “ salaam( with a cute cute smile and so politely) how are u? sorry to have disturbed u but could we exchange phone numbers and keep in touch..?”
Jawahir: “ walaikum al salaam (with a smile)… am sorry but I can’t give u my number”
Meat pie: “ why r u married?…is this ur house?”
Jawahir: “no am not married and yes this is my house why … would u like to come in and have coffee with my family …! (she said with a laugh)….”
Meat pie “are u sure this is ur house ..?”
Jawahir: “yes I am… why”
Meat pie: “well it was a pleasure meeting u ..! and inshaallah we well be seeing each other soon” (with a smile)
Well before u all make a judgment usually I would snap or ignore but in this case I really had no intention of ruining my mood and what else can he doo I mean what chance does he have that we would meet socially poor meat pie heheheh … anyway …
So I was on a high….. on life in general… since the morning then the above happened which I took as entertainment for me for the day …. Heheheh … I mean come on the Queen haaaaaaaaaas to be entertained at some from time to time …..
I then joined my friends at a common friends house (a girl I recently met) but a gem of a person ….. had a brilliant time …. Then we went to this other invitation of a friend from school he organized it so we went…..
Now I enjoyed the company of my friends but I was towards the end of the evening and was grateful that I left ............
Sunday, May 13, 2007
Older Women.... Younger Men....!
“Tooo young …!! But xxxx (my nick name) age is but a number ….!!” She said this to me when she was 12 or 13 she is now 18 … bless my baby cookie …. Anyway….. I was shocked and couldn’t digest that she new these things but then I remembered her family all living and settled in UK and have been for awhile ….. So she would know more about these things relationships etc than we did at her age ……
So anyway ...... a few days ago my friend and I were talking about younger men hehehs since we are booootiful at are primes heheheheh ;) and single we actually found that many men that flirted or etc were younger than us ……. We are still not sure if we could be with younger men or not …. So is it just a number ???
I mean I will be 31 in July so how young is too young … coz then being a cradle snatcher or breastfeeding a guy (heheheh ) behave all is something I do not want be hehehehehehheeh
Since it’s quite typical almost cliché to see an older man with a much younger woman……… It has become the standard that men date/ marry younger women……. but we have yet to accept the idea of a woman with a man much younger than her……. Am I right or wrong ……
I don’t know if I would be able to date/ marry younger than me …. Don’t know …. !!!
And just to kill ur curiosity I have not been asked out by any cute young meat pies...
Thursday, May 10, 2007
Do Women Want A Sensitive Man....!!
“….Of course mince pies want the meat pies that will shed the occasional tear at the conclusion of Titanic”
(oxymoron is a figure of speech or expressed idea in which apparently contradictory terms appear)
now going all the way back to prehistoric times……meat pies were the providers in the couple….. and that has changed in today’s day and age….. but a I like that idea….. and mince pies maintained the residence…….. I like this idea too….. she prepared the food and cared for the children……. However ….this has not extended into the 21st century so much……….. today women and men are equal ……… (now u all know I don’t believe that they are but anyway …….) it's merely a statement for the more old-fashioned couples…… so no need to give me shit about this! …. Oh dear did I use that word heheheh ….shyte
Mince pies want a take-charge and authoritative meat pies that can take care of business…………. a decisive meat pies that can get things done, but with a tender heart……. Well that part of what I want….. but as for the public what say u…..Or am I simply WRONG……….
Updates:
*no meat pie alerts for all those who are curios
*unfortunately the SFC’s have been very happy since I haven’t tried to eliminate them due to *the fact I was very ill but don’t u all worry they are going to gooooo….
*I met up with a couple of very old school mates … and u know I am glad that we met I believe a long lasting friendship is in store ….
*and my family members are fine ……
*and last but not least..... I am still vain and a queen … and love u all hehehehe
have a lovely weekend all
I think of myself as an intelligent, sensitive human being with the soul of a clown which always forces me to blow it at the most important moments.
Jim Morrison
Tuesday, May 08, 2007
The Kiss a FEW tips ....
Ever since went to bed last night and woke up this morning …(also going on for a few days now I have to be honest)…. all I could think was hmmmm kiss … kiss… kisss….
Yes ppl its been a long time …. Sooo long that sometimes I think I may have forgotten hehehe but we all know no one can forget to be able to KISS … so that I wont kiss the next person I see….. (heheheh how many just wished it would be u …. Heheheh anyway u all know I wouldn’t do that I can personally cant just kiss any tom dick or harry … (ok ok khalfan, khamis or mazin- why I choose these name I don’t know…) but like I said before I cant just kiss anyone …. So I thought let write about it and give the boys some tips and others might share their methods…..
Anyway…… so when it comes to kissing….. the meat pie who seems to have all the time in the world has exactly the right idea…….heheh so we wish …..
Anyway ….at the beginning of a relationship…….u want to reveal ur:
*tender
*creative
*passionate side
The kiss ......is the embodiment of all these wonderfully seductive qualities………. So I believe ……. It can not be:
*Hurried
*or delayed
*or — goodness forbid — avoided (hehehehe )
as far as I am concerned Kissing is an essential part of romance …………….. & arguably the best part... unless we're talking shared crème brulee by candlelight or hmmmm strawberries n cream hmmmm …. (ppl I told u not to side track me) …. .
so the mince pies like the meat pies who knows how to use his mouth — for great conversations and other pursuits (I giggled while writing this – oh am so cute hehehe )…….
So ….don't focus only on our lips meat pies……. We loved the first kiss….. the second kiss ……and the good night kiss…….. Now show us what else u've got... and maybe we'll return the favor……. (too straight forward girls for u well then talk say what u have to say)
here are a few tips on kissing from the boootiful queen heheh (such vanity) any way yes kissing so meat pies u go to the :
- The hands: they deserve a loving touch when we least expect it...
a kiss on the back of a mince pies's hand is a Victorian formality that is…………. Unfortunately sadly but truly going the way of the dodo…. Ie becoming extinct ………… so sad ……... because a little attention in this perfectly innocent spot can start a thrilling chill………… There's no need to stick with convention when u reach for her hand…………. By the way meat pies her palms and fingures also deserve a little attention.
- The neck:
the coup de grace (trying to rember some of my French- seriously ppl I mean I can barely get by now hehehe) anyway…..of all kissing spots …..a mince pies's neck should also be kissed often….. and for longer periods of time that other places (for starters)…….. it I believe that to most meat pies's it is an essential part of the kissing repertoire ( a nicer word than list of collection hehehe)
So start with the jaw line and move to the collarbone…… leaving a trail of kisses in ur wake………………. a place where u can vary ur kissing style…… from chaste to deep and everything in between…….(also nibble a little... don't be shy) …… we mince pies might even giggle in delight…………. Heheheh …..
- The ear : meat pies proceed with caution - because not everybody is an ear-kissing enthusiast – I hate I twhen a man puts his tounge in my ear but hey some women do like it .... personally ….eeeeeyyywwww…
so anyway On ur journey from the neck back to the lips….. take a little detour and visit the ear. ……the earlobe is an ok place to start…..be gentle and whisper some sweet nothings while u're kissing her ear also meat pies do ask her if she doesn’t mind it I mean don’t be offended if she tell u she doesn’t like it …..
the little map that I have just described to all of u is anything but complete….since just about any spot of skin is a great place for a kiss (heheheh hmmmm- make u wonder sah hehehe --- ok I will try to behave)
*the wrists
*shoulder
*eyelids
*knuckles — laish laa …why not?
We mince pies will instantly relax and warm up to a meat pies that understands how to be sensual……. Whether u met ur lady last week or have been married to her since year dot………. Go get those lips moving……. Just remember to go brush ur teeth (or dentures) first……. Hahah u wouldn’t want bad breath now would u …..? heheheheheh
I hope this helps…………and also now u know a little of what booootifull me likesssssss….
I wasn't kissing her, I was whispering in her mouth.
Chico Marx (1891 - 1961)
Sunday, May 06, 2007
Fall not in love, therefore; it will stick to your face.
Love has become a four-letter word. It's one of the most overused, under-appreciated, misunderstood words in the English language........... Nowadays........ the image of love seems more like a 7/11; a convenience store on the road of life........... designed to provide satisfactory feelings without too much effort, rather than the classic sentiment associated with fairytales like Cinderella........... i love cinderellie (a favorite of mine)....
What am I talking about?
I'm talking about how we've changed the definition of love....... It has become an all-encompassing term used to describe virtually any relationship we are in...... even if it is one void of any deep emotional connection. ..............
There are plenty of couples that love each other............ it's a normal, natural emotion that exists when one spends a considerable amount of time with another........... but time makes us love someone............. being in love is a whole other story............ you can love your sister, your mother, your brother, your friends (though you'll never admit to that one unless you're under the influence)...........
but you can only be in love with a woman or that man that sets your heart on fire.........
Unfortunately, nowadays we easily confuse the concept of love with attraction..........
Are you a gifted flirt ?
some ppl say that innocent flirting is is good for u some said no....so this is to the meat pies and mince pies:
Raise ur hand if you've ever:
- gotten into a stupid fight with your other half and stormed off in a huff......!!!
- Or if u have gotten a secret rush from flirting with a cute waiter/ waitress or any other person for that matte...... even though u adore ur other half (husband/wife or a partner)....!!!
- Or if u occasionally tell ur other half blatantly untrue things, like, "Sure, I think ur bald spot is sexy!" or " Sure that it doesn't make u look fat!"
Sound familiar? Fighting, flirting, fibbing .....all habits that are big no-no's in a relationship .....but guess what.....everyone does this stuff sometimes - yes.....even the perfect couple that u may know................ !
also do u believe that a lot of supposedly bad love habits not only aren't bad for you....... they just might do your long-term bond a whole lot of good....??
do u believe that these love fouls can actually make your relationship stronger.....closer.....and better than ever...!!
at the same time .....it's dangerous....it's wrong - it's the gateway act to cheating..... in fact to some..... it is cheating. ......but the truth is,......a little innocent flirting with someone other than your steady can have serious relationship benefits............!!!
i really don't know how i would react (if and when i have my other half )..... react were to flirt i know i wouldn't but hey .......
Please let me know what u think.......
Women flirt to keep their stock high, men to get somewhere. Mignon McLaughlin 1960
Saturday, May 05, 2007
When Women Get LAZY....!!!
Tuesday, May 01, 2007
Virginity is in the LIES of the Beholder..!!
Monday, April 30, 2007
The Chemistry of Love: It's why your knees go weak, your.................
The Chemistry of Love..... It's why when you fall in love.:
- your knees go weak
- your palms sweat
- your stomach does flip-flops
- and you begin to stammer
- u also get butterflies , etc
When sparks fly between two people..........we're quick to say they have "chemistry"............ not everyone realizes that such couples literally have do have chemistry..............it's what's behind those sweaty palms........... the jumpy stomach................. thumping heart..... and nervous jitters............ chemistry also contributes to that warm, comfortable feeling you get from being with a longtime partner/lover/husband.....etc
so what do u feel when u feel u are in love...............? as for what do i feel i haven't been in Love in a long time .... i do believe in love.... but its been a while so when i am ppl i will let u know
all i remember that it is a beautiful feeling .....
i believe that every time a person falls in love during there lifetime is a different experience all together becoz ur at a different step in life .... however i also believe that the basic are the same all the above and more that i haven't mentioned......
Friendship Part 3: Would U Date Your Best Friend's EX..? I know Many WHO did ...!
ok now ur probably wondering why i am in touch with my friends ex meat pie and that's coz the families go way back and i told my friend that i don't want to be involved in anything that goes on between the 2 of u and she is also in touch with him actually and he calls me just to say hi.....not the other way.....
so basically u all now know i am protective of my friends and family and would stand up for them when need be........ so my friend called and wanted to know what was the reason for me not talking to A and i told him if he want to know he should as her not me coz so much has happened since then that she was insignificant ....... and not to dwell on the past ......................
i know what it feel like coz i used have a couple of very good friend who did that to me ... they slept with my ex fiancee heheheh loool both of them with the same person and they were friends too hehehe and i was engaged to him another story for another post...
so basically the bottom line is that "some lines in friendship should not be crossed"
Friendship Part 2: Would U Date Your Best Friend's EX..? I know Many WHO did ...!
continued........
then one of my female friend met another friend of mine (a meat pie) from another group they hit it off well and for a very short moment something happened between them ..... and then it ended now my female Friends whom i will call angel 1 was still hooked on her meat pie they were now friends ....... and friend A was introduced to angel 1's kind of ex and guess what (A the back stabber knows that angel 1 still isn't over the meat pie and is still in love with him) goes and starts hanging out with him going for long walks on the beach ...... camping etc)
ok some more information A the back stabber isn't a westerner who converted to Islam ..... angel 1 is Omani but born and lived part of her life in the west too... but we all met in Oman......
anyway so A the back stabber would come and say ohhh u know i met angel 1's meat pie today and we did this and that ......and angel 1 found out coz being her best friend (15+) of friendship i told her in front of A what A had told me and then angel 1 told A that she was not ok with her doing that and that she was still hurting ......
A didn't respond so one day i called her coz angel 1 was in a bad state and was really down .....coz of the who situation..... so like i said i called A and said the back stabber that look were all friends and that what shes doing isn't right coz what she is doing is hurting a good friend and A told me that she will do as she pleases and didn't care and all men (meat pies are game) i told her fine if that's what u believe but a friend doesn't hurt a friends feelings....... and she said she didn't care so i said fine u have just redefined the meaning of friendship and i don't wish to have anything to do with u ......... (some ppl when they found out were shocked that I moi reacted this way (coz am supposed to be the nice one) ...... and i said look i have a few angels and angel 1 is an important part of my life u f*** with her( i didn't say what happened to ppl who asked me ).............. (and my other angels) is a no no no i drop anything .... that would hurt them ( u c i am a loyal friend and take my friendships seriously and their are some friends of mind u don't mess with and everyone knows that) and another thing why would i want to be friends with a woman who has no SCRUPLES really come on ....... now the only one still friends with A is B and the meat pie......
to be continued...............
Friendship Part 1: Would U Date Your Best Friend's EX..? I know Many WHO did ...!
Part 3: The Evil Eye.............. be gone ..
thank u thank u thank u ...........
Saturday, April 28, 2007
Part 2: The Evil Eye..............
Thursday, April 26, 2007
Part 1: The Evil Eye..............
Wednesday, April 25, 2007
Sunday, April 22, 2007
For if they could, Cupid himself would blush .....But I have Yet to Blush...
This isn’t a controversial topic like my female orgasms hehehehe ... hey it had to be discussed ppl ….
This is about getting married …. Ok as u all know or now know I am 30 and single….lol and my mom and her friend tried to play cupid heheh it backfired unfortunately or fortunaltely.... as usual….now don’t get me wrong I don’t have a problem with arranged marriages and neither do I , if it were a love marriage and my family wouldn’t either…
but ...ohhh if only it was understood and it is so simple.... i would give the bloke a chance if i found him nice arranged or not .... and as for marrying in the family ...I am not keen on marrying my cozins loool thank god I don’t have too since the ones that are left are like in there teens or younger … heheh (cradle snatcher) yukiii.. heh he heh they say age is but a number but hey …..sometimes it can be too young….
So anyway my mom asked me to be coy and bashful and to behave .. …. Hehehh how can I do that when I am not interested in the guy ….
So I am ….bold and say what I have to say but I also know when to say it but …. This is me unless the meat pie has sparked an interest in me … it is only then I become so shy that it isn’t funny heheheh I have been in that position in a very very very ….. very looooooooooong time… that sometimes I think to myself ….will it ever happen … will it … yes it will ….. anyway I acted as though I didn’t know what was going on and made the appearance an excused myself …. Heheh the maid called me again and I sat we chatted and they left..... anyway I have said no… and that … that….. but how long will I be able to keep sending the meat pies to the butchery I don’t know … hehe let’s see….
Updates:
*heheh No meat pies thank god... 1 more sent to the butchery hehehe
*no wedding bells either …..hehehe
*SFC’s hmm was upset with them cozes only 2 kg more vanished… don’t worry ppl am still working on then I haven’t given up …..
*Thinking about next topic trying find the right way to write it ……
Thursday, April 19, 2007
Test Drive: The only Limit is UR Imagination..

The Logo of my favorite Car ---- I love

One of the classics i I will most likely own one day soon

And before the classic i believe i will own 1 of these
Only I can Change My Life... No one Can Do It For ME!
- as u all know that i am one who like to sit at home.... but in the last week or so i have been out constantly ... something or the other comes up.. from meetings(professional events to social events)
- i am very happy coz professionally i am growing (al hamdillilah) ...
- i watched the SECRET.. laws of attraction ... it is a must see... i have been on a roll since then.....(i have learnt to forgive) and other things too
- being going out for dinners etc meeting ppl....
- and last but not least....was flirted with .... and i am just bored with the shyte that ppl come up with .....
- ahhh also meat pie alert ... my friend and i think we may have come across a Man In the Middle (MIM) .... just like the Woman In the Middle (WIM).....
- OH!!! have made a conscious decision of what i am going to have in my King of Meat Pies heheheh... and maybe just maybe will share it will u ...... hehehe and maybe i wont it all depends....;).....
- ohh! have updated my List of Things to By the Time I am 33.... have to share that with definitely....;)
- am very hyper ..... ;).... and yes i do have PLANS tonight ...what they are i don't know yet.... but i am going out (heheheheh am a bad bad bad ... girl) ....
It's not that some people have willpower and some don't. It's that some people are ready to change and others are not.
James Gordon
Tuesday, April 17, 2007
Part 1: The Female Orgasm .... Is for the Pleasure of Her & Him...!
- Foreplay.. like teasing ,kissing, touching, tasting....etc is a must to get arouse her (this i think is for both not just her)....
- Most mince pies need about 15+ minutes of clitoral or G-spot stimulation (this will get back to later) to hit the jackpot i.e to have an orgasm....
- just for information boys if there is a look of pain more than pleasure (unless she is into that) then stop... the act is not of pain it is supposed to be of pleasure ...
what does feel like well uheeem : (something i read) heheheheh
"An orgasm is the point at which all the tension is suddenly released in a series of involuntary and pleasurable muscular contractions that may be felt in the vagina and/or uterus (some women do experience orgasms without contractions). It happens when excitement seems to go over the edge -- a climax is reached which may last several seconds or longer"
contrary to what the mince pies and meat pies believe.... Masturbating is good for your health. ......Studies show that orgasm can reduce sensitivity to pain, relieve menstrual cramps, and alleviate stress—possibly due to a surge in oxytocin and dopamine
Did you know ... that i read some where that the ancient Greeks to Freud's time....... doctors stimulated orgasms in women via "medical massage" to treat the catchall female ailment known as hysteria ..... hahahahaha .....
and hmmm did you know that in the late 1800s...... the vibrator was designed for the same purpose....... to treat our ailment of hysteria ......
hehehe let ur minds wonder ...
Monday, April 16, 2007
Women Who Seek to be Equal to Men Lack Ambition
God only Help ME after this post.... i think u will all understand why i stated a woman's scorn quote.
u know what my ppl.... heheheh .... (u all know i might be kidding say... just might be..) about my ppl business ...
i am in the process of maybe not being a single mince pie (i like being single and all but decide i want more in life )...and no i don't have a meat pie or a potential one it is a thought i am processing at the moment i will list the requirements ... heheh later..
.. before i am judged heheh i will still be able to mince them...( the meat pies) and the butchery will still be open no worries hehehe ... by the way the butchery is open for the meat pies too if they want to further mince their mince pies ... don't want ppl think that i am a feminist coz am not .... hehehe ... i believe in women's rights yes but a woman is not equal to a man ... if she was to be the same then we wouldn't have been created differently.... yes yes i have opened a Pandora's box and the mince pies are going to try and crucify me well u know something girlie's..... its a fact and live with it and i am entitled to my opinions .... ok i think i need to clarify my thoughts here ... and use my self as an example...
i am a queen hehehe ... ok look i am the queen of mince pies (hahah) look i tried to be a civilian and i couldn't my fingers could type humility on my behalf (hmmm wonder what pic i am giving to all ) look u all know the vanity thing so .. i guess we have an understanding by now ...
so as i was saying i am an independent woman... have been raised in a very liberal environment... the boys were never treated differently to the girls as a general rule even extended family.... as u all my have realised (my parents are like the air i breath as i am sure is the same with many of u) both work etc and i remember parents telling me "...ur education is ur back bone ... and tomorrow (as in one day) u will get married and the only thing that we can give u is to provide u with the tools of life ..."..... so we have unspoken rule in the family unless u have a degree (minimum) don't even think of marriage... girls or boys .... ( the reason being especially for girls.. is that they the parents don't know what sort of men the husbands will turn out so to safe guard the girls they can be able to fend for themselves .... ) am sure u all understand .... as for the boy coz they need to able to support their own families....
so coming from that background .... and the freedom to travel and explore only on the basis that trust is there is amazing .... u don't feel the need to lie etc... anyway ... what i was trying to say was that being independent, strong ... and career driven and then u here the phrases she is equal to the men etc ..... i work in a male dominated environment.... and have been from the day i remember ... but.. i can still cook and sew and do all those things yes i am vain and spoilt but ppl we are the gentler sex ... (i think i side tracked a little) but i am hoping ppl understand what i am trying to say .... i remember some one i knew and still do....who didn't cook for her husband and till date doesn't and when i asked her why a while back she said she was not a maid ... i was shocked this was from a newly wed... same question asked a few years later i got the same answer she was not a maid .... so now she has a driver 2 maids one for each child and her parents or his ....cook or send food to their house ....
we were sitting down once and one of my friends said i can see that ur going to move up in the world maybe one day become minister or equivalent ... and then the topic changed and all of a sudden the was like i can see the future and we laughed and he said wala i can just see u being married to some ambassador and u the minister of xyz .... and i laughed and he said ok a question for u if u were in that position and ur partner was based abroad then ... i said very simple .... i would resign and go to where he is ..... i think many ppl sitting with us that day were aghast since i have always been a career motivated person .... and that took those who were close to me by surprise too..... anyway the whole idea was that i don't believe that mince pies and meats pies are equal..... not by a long shot.... yes women should be respected and made to feel by sheer appreciation (equal) etc .... and should be treated as intellectual beings i am not saying that just because they are not equal that a woman's existence is nominal .... she is the foundation .... of many homes .... and she should be respected ....
being respected does not mean equal ppl should differentiate......
Funny business, a woman's career:
the things you drop on the way up the ladder so you can move faster. You forget you'll need them again when you get back to being a woman. It's one career all females have in common, whether we like it or not: being a woman. Sooner or later, we've got to work at it, no matter how many other careers we've had or wanted. Joseph L. Mankiewicz
Sunday, April 15, 2007
The best car safety device is a rear-view mirror with a cop in it.

Thursday, April 12, 2007
The Attempt and Not the Deed.... Confounds us
- no meat pies on on the scene... those that attempt are being minced... and am getting pretty good at the mincing process .. am thinking of opening up my own butchery heheheh .. hmmm what do u think ? should I!! or maybe give courses... hmm
- my friends still love them ...
- my SFC's well they are on their way to hell.... hhhehhehehehe (parting is such sweet sorrow)
- anything else .. will let u know
Wednesday, April 11, 2007
It is with our Passions, as it is with Fire and Water....
Tuesday, April 10, 2007
A Moment in my Life today ...
Strawberries 'n' Cream


What is the First thought that has crossed ur mind after seeing this ?
There is nothing like good food, good wine (in the good old days), and a bad girl.
Saturday, April 07, 2007
Food is the most primitive form of comfort
ok ppl have some brilliant news to share with u ...... my SFC's project working have managed to vanquish 5 kg of them yessssssssssssssssss....... now a few more to goooooooooooo......
There is no love sincerer than the love of food.
- meat pies: male species- MEN
- mince pies: female species- WOMEN
- um ali: female species- WOMEN
- fata'a : male species- MEN
- banofee pie: male species- SOFT MEN (not gay)
MEN= a mans man... the meat pies know what i am talking about... ;) some women like a mans man some like the banofee's
other than that wala nothing much happened...... i met up with a few friends also family had a blast .....
Tell me what you eat, and I will tell you what you are.
Anthelme Brillat-Savarin (1755 - 1826)
Thursday, April 05, 2007
Being Unfaithfull........
"Sure, he's charming, but he's married...... remember? i was like..... haven't u thought about the fact that he's cheating on his wife....? there are no positive reasons for dating a married man or for that matter an um ali ...........even the good reasons don't stand the test of time and this will turn out to be a bad idea..............."
- he won't commit to a future with u.
- cheating on his wife tells u how he deals with any situation he doesn't like (i said this but......)
- hiding is exhausting......... to keep ur relationship a secret can attack ur self-esteem and cause u to miss out on one of the wonderful aspects of a relationship.
- he's got his cake and is eating it tooooo ... smart isn't he many will think .....he has a legitimate married relationship that helps his public persona and he has an illegitimate one with u to make up for what he is missing in his marriage. .....as far as i am concerned... as appreciative as he sounds..... i think many many women who are involved with married men come to resent his having the best of both worlds....... when she has the least.
- how can u love someone who is so disrespectful of his wife?
- a mince pie or a meat pie shouldn't be a home wrecker..... the act just makes them an accomplice....like it or not i told her .... " u are a willing participant in a man violating his vows and betraying the trust of his wife -- not to mention grossly disappointing his children and making it difficult for them to see him as a role model"
- hhmm and beware of the guilt boomerang. .... i believe many meat pies (and mince pies) have difficulty accepting full responsibility for their deceitful actions. ......we as humans find it easier to blame than to accept shame.... we i think so
- time is too precious to waste................
Tuesday, April 03, 2007
Unless commitment is made, there are only promises and hopes... but no plans
Monday, April 02, 2007
Education is when you read the fine print. Experience is what you get if you don't
Sunday, April 01, 2007
Please Turn into A Goat not a Lioness......misunderstood concept!!!!
William Shakespeare
Do I Make Thee Loins Burn With DESIRE ? Via Technology !!!
there is a lot that can be written about as far as drama goes i have it all around me.... so here i go ... ok ...
this is an issue that seem to be their but not spoken of actually..... PHONE SEX.... (honestly and personally.... something that doesn't appeal to me) i have a theory that i am sure many share and many don't .... and the theory is :
' if god wanted us to have sex via the phone or whatever the tech. is called today .... then why did he create adam and eve.....'
personal view phone sex unnatural ....
now the reason i brought it up was coz i have on numerous occasions been told that i have a sexy voice .... i have been bothered when wrong numbers have been answered ..... my male friends and they are just friends have told me that even some of my straight female friends too ..(had to say straight god only know how u ppl think really now ...) hahahahahah ....
lets say A meat pie calls (we will call the male species meat pies from now even when talking in general) ha ... sorry boys .... i have nothing against men promise ;-) and lets say the meat pie is one that u don't mind checking out the ingredients (ppl understand it the way u want) hahahah.... so ur talking flirting the mughazala is going on and towards the end of the night things like breathing becomes slower voice pitch starts going lets say very low anyway on both ends and some time the girls (bad bad bad) hehehe initiate or feed the potential to talking dirty or the men start asking what ur wearing ... its become an old line ppl ..... aaaaaaaaaaagggggghhhh
now with me its happened when i say no non of ur business and want to change the topic the guy just persists i have felt shyte on many occasions where i have had to never speak to the guy again or have to cut off even as friends coz they dont understand no no no no ... u know what ppl now what i am about to declare is not vanity i have alhamdulliah a nice voice.... but it has its downfalls even when i am at work and i answer my phone ppl think i have just woken up and sound sooooo gooood and i am like no am working .. was deep in thought ..... ppl ..... sometimes i find it hilarious when some of my good friends call men and women call they make fun of my voice .... but there are some ppl when they call who are acquaintance's and even potential meat pies (yes ppl plural for the pies...) and the ones that are not meat meat pies should be mined.....
anyway why should one keep all eggs/ meat pies in one basket ........ oh my god can u imagine what my critics will do to this topic and my statements .... they will just show how shallow they are and even ejoy the humor in my playfulness..... i cant do anything about my voice ... i really cant ..... what to do .... i do believe some men have just amazing voices dont u girls hehehehehe...... i mean once i got a phone call and when i answered this man with and extremely velvety deep voice said hello may i speak to ' ahem and he asked for me' and i said speaking who is calling plz and he gave me his name now his name did not ring a bell and he said ur baba gave me ur number and i wanted to say hello ..... i thought hmm i must know him but couldn't recollect and he laughed also ohh very sexy voice... now i said once second the only person with ur name that i know is an uncle so and so and he laughed and said how are u bintii (my daughter) he hadnt seen me in 15 years or more and i said 3ami u disappointed me i thought a sexy guy kan bajghi yet3araf 3alai ... and we both laughed and laughed and he said i am sitting with ur father plz come and join us .... and now honestly that uncle has one of the sexiest voice i have heared.....(non of u were expecting that were u) i just find it funny.... the story...
anyway ..... the other point is that if phone sex does take place then why is it tabooo and why do ppl think of it as inappropriate ... its and expression of feeling (i mean just coz i dont like it that doesn't mean that everyone should agree with my theory) there are ppl who do enjoy it ..... and its also another way of getting close to the other person especially in our part of the world and again its ostracised.....
I'm too shy to express my sexual needs except over the phone to people I don't know.
Garry Shandling
up dates:
- meat pie: has been minced ...... hahahaha... has been told to go take a hike coz am not interested in dating and finally understood (i hope)
- friend who saw me where i wasnt: same as meat pie.... ohh no no no no dating women for me i meant she was told to take a hike too
- all other i still love .... hehehe :) a hand full who read the blog and the rest who dont know of its existance......
- as for my SFC's - Sexy Fat Cells... yep we nearly forgot about them ..... actuall i had to take a break since i had injured my sweet footyyy while walking ..... so i start again today......wish me luck ppl....
April Fool's Day
Communication traveled slowly in those days and some people were only informed of the change several years later. Still others, who were more rebellious refused to acknowledge the change and continued to celebrate on the last day of the former celebration, April 1. These people were labeled "fools" by the general populace, were subject to ridicule and sent on "fool errands," sent invitations to nonexistent parties and had other practical jokes played upon them. The butts of these pranks became known as a "poisson d'avril" or "April fish" because a young naive fish is easily caught. In addition, one common practice was to hook a paper fish on the back of someone as a joke.
This harassment evolved over time and a custom of prank-playing continue on the first day of April. This tradition eventually spread elsewhere like to Britain and Scotland in the 18th century and was introduced to the American colonies by the English and the French. Because of this spread to other countries, April Fool's Day has taken on an international flavor with each country celebrating the holiday in its own way.
Saturday, March 31, 2007
Change is the constant, the signal for rebirth, the egg of the phoenix
however ... the night we went out for dinner to a nice restaurant..... now u have to keep in mind i haven't really been out in a while and to that place its been like over 7 months (eeeeyyyy) and it used to be my favorite restaurant in town once upon a time .... now i reached there and of course had my vehicle vale parked and we went my friend and myself ..... and initially it was nice and quiet and then i was shocked and it takes a lot to shock me ... trust me .... the girls and guys were good so young and looked so old and just flaunting themselves and this is a nice restaurant gone bad....... about an hour and a half later we left and went else after we ate .......
generally it was a good weekend i loved it .......
oh by the way just before i end i just wanted to say something:
'A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort...... i say this coz i seem to have upset ppl with my blogg ....... which is quiet surprising coz they are still reading it ...... haahahah hmmm hypocrisy what to do ..... i have even been told that i shouldn't have written what i did in my post titled Character is what God and the Angels know of us ...Reputation is what men and women think of us.. well u know what ..... if they are annoyed then more power to them and they shouldn't read my blogg and if they are then criticism is good and i have interesting topics to write about ...... so hey i said it before and will say it again .... hmmm I have the power...... ;-)'
Thursday, March 29, 2007
In anger we should refrain both from speech and action.
Wednesday, March 28, 2007
Character is what God and the Angels know of us ...Reputation is what men and women think of us...
a while back i took a back seat .... and the glue that kept them all together dissolved .... with fair warning of course ..... due to lots of personal reasons (nothing whatsoever to do with my friends or family) this was a choice i made .... to being out of the lime lite......
1. there is a person know as someone i just know - who we will refer to as meat pie (whether he is yummy or not i would not know or want to know) there was a time in year dot that yes maybe i would have been interested in checking out the ingredients of the meat pie -- hahahahah but know ... there is no way..... how shall i put it ..... the meat pie gives me indigestion and ulcers ..... now Meat pie called me and asked me if i knew a girl i said no ... then they told me about the girl and where she lived and i was like yes but that was a long time i go i had gotten to meet her through other friends that's all it..... and then i am told she has been bad mouthing me now i haven't spoken or seen the girl in over what 6 years why would she do that (giving her the benefit of the doubt ) and even if she did .... what do i care .... the tongue in like a whip which can break but has no bones .... so i ignored it and that's that....
Guard your Honour.... Let your reputation fall where it will..... and out live the Bastards....
i once read somewhere that .... Reputation is for time and character is for eternity......
Tuesday, March 27, 2007
The Fact : the meaning of friendship
i usually have long days at work but i enjoy my work ..... however today has been exceptionally long .....
actually i am disappointed...
i think it is due to the realisation and acceptance of a fact .... i think this fact has been at the back of my head but i didn't want to digest it since i would be sick if i did.... i guess i have slowly started to come to terms with this fact, unfortunately such is life and that's the way the cookie crumbles..... :-)
the fact : the meaning of friendship
i have nothing more to add to this today maybe later ..... but hey ppl ;-)
hmm i wonder the few that know me .. what they might be thinking after this ..... :)
Monday, March 26, 2007
What About Love ..... ???I was Asked !!!!
- ahhh he has to be tall .. (sorry boys but in oman not many of u are .. with all my due respect) :)
- and a lot of sense of humour
i am going to let u in on my version of my perfect man in piece meal ..... it looks like i will forget what i wrote in the beginning by the end or the list will be never ending .... god help us all.... to be continued
Mama took me to Work today.....
like i said in my first blog
(god always keep them in good health and all)
now the funnier part in all of this is that mama has decided that she has found this absolutely gorgeous man whom she described as a Greek god that she want to match make with me (hehehe) her 30 yr old single very picky daughter ... (one of the many women in the middle) :) ... i mean what can i say i laughed and changed the subject ... i mean which parent doesn't want to c there child settle down ..... ohhhhh anyway <---- another topic altogether .... so now we go back to what i did yesterday .... yes ppl i did burn some of those SFC's am very proud of me self ;) after went home.... was with parents.... and opened some books for this course that i have enrolled in.....
by the way before i forget ... i understand the comments but is one supposed to to reply to them coz i just did .....
as for the rest of the day lets see what it has to unfold for me ......
Sunday, March 25, 2007
The Women In The Middle ------
unfortunately i was not happy about that and maybe just maybe that's why i was kinda rambling on ..... in the last couple of posts..... (hehehe i sound like i have a archives full of my posts) anyway......
i had initially wanted to call this blog The Women In The Middle (this is to be copyrighted to me since it is going to be the potential title of my future book) ---- or more so The Bitches In The Middle (inspired by the book why men marry bitches) Hey !!! what can i say ...
now i didn't name my blog that coz i assumed probably correctly that many ppl will miss understand that i might be in a situation of being a mistress or caught in a triangle of love etc... when i say women in the middle i mean girls / women like my self and so many others in this part of the world ... in a nutshell ... we are too local for the westerners and too western for the locals ... IE therefore... we are in the middle neither here nor there...many might agree many might not...... but it is a fact .... we cant deny and its a growing situation in our society.....
i have sat down in many a gathering us girls sometimes the guys over cigarettes an coffee and discussed this issue but our views have become quite extreme since many of my friends and i don't have a problem with being ourselves in public.....now again we don't disrespect any traditions or cultural values in fact we rather support it ...... surprise surprise.... :) but we are not afraid of who we are ......
i have on many occasion from men FRIENDS.....been asked why are women not telling us the truth.... my answer to them is that if many girls reveal there true like and dislikes or passions ...etc she will be criticised and frowned upon ..... and when she plays the part of the O' so Virtuous One or as i like to phrase it (sharifat maka) then, they are just tunnel visioned and narrow minded etc its a catch 22 situation ... so US WTM's get stuck and then men get confused or crafty or just having a good time ..... we are not in may cases taken seriously .....
recently i was told i have a flaw ... a negative quality (moi, me , ana....) i was mortified (heheheh being the o all so royal one and spoilt) that someone a friend had actually said that i had a flaw (i am so close to perfection it isn't even funny) hahahahahahaahahaha sorry couldn't help it anyway going back to my negative quality..... :( sad sad sad anyway they said i had to Strong a personality and any man would prefer to tone me down or he should have a stronger personality that myself .... so they came up with the solution that i should become a GOAT .. a cute fluffy one .... it all good for fun and games and to have a good laugh but what he said made sense.... to a degree.... god i need a cigarette......
anyway..... that was part of my thoughts if u' would like to say anything please dooo ... am off home now and will have my ciggies in the car.....
The Queen Has Power!!!
i just had a revelation...i do have the power... i am a queen and i do have the power .....!!!! haha More Power to Me ....!!
so how has my day been so far since my last post ohh rejuvenating and it will continue for the rest of the day .....
a friend claims he is a jerk but is in fact one of the finest men i know and i am honoured to have him as a FRIEND in my life he made a discovery about me a long time ago however i disagree its a new discovery he has made that when i want to change the topic or get embarrassed i start giggling and change it to a laughing matter.....he is currently stating at this very moment that this is not going to stop him or his thoughts......
as long as men can breath, or eyes can c...... so long lives this and this gives life to thee....
Let me not to the marriage of true minds
yesterday i had a few interesting things happen to me :
now in my previouse blog i mentioned that i wanted to share something with my readers but am sorry folks the topic is just too sensitive and it isnt mine to tell so respecting the other persons privecy i am not going to bring it up..... however i have to let u know it gave me a sleepless night ...
i did sleep but with worry anyway....
i had made this decision a long time ago that i am sick and tired of ppl who think even though i have not given them the right to be involved in my life to run it for me where do they get off doing things like that .... i mean unless i have said something to the other person or asked for the help or support my life is mine ... and then them raising there voices at u ... that all BS .....
on the who inhad a lovey day and looks like today wll even be nicer ....
as for the battle of the SFC = sexy fat cells thats still going strong so far .... with all my aches and pains .... lol what out ppl here i come again ...( more power to my VANITY ............. HAHAHAH)
i have to go back to work ... but will leave u with this :
by william sheakspear sonnet 116
Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:
O, no! it is an ever-fixed mark,
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come;
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
If this be error and upon me proved,
I never writ, nor no man ever loved.
keep in mind that this is a love poem written by a man to another man, and that the one impediment to their marriage is precisely that, for no church of the time, or scarcely even today, permits a man to marry a man....
have a lovely day
Saturday, March 24, 2007
The poor SFC's that burnt and vanished into the air...
now as i mentioned in my earlier post i did burn some of my SFC (for those who don't know they are my sexy fat cells) over the weekend it was sheer torture .... trust me ... however i whined about it for 2 days but i have to say it was refreshing the walk no the whining ... i feel bad for me friends who had to listen to me whine .................... well ppl i am going again for my walk ... with my bleeding blistered feet .. and aching waist , hips and arms even my hair was in pain..... now now no laughing ... :)
as for today i at work had a few meetings ...... work was normal not much went on there....
a situation has recently cropped up and am contemplating if i should discuss it here and gain all opinions or wait and see then maybe talk about it on line ..... directly linked with me but hey ..... :)
am off for now and if my figure can type after the walk we will meet again
:)
Thursday, March 22, 2007
A Peek into a Part of My Day......
why am i so cheerful? no specific reason..... :-)
now lets see where 'o where should i start ..... so for this is what my day has been like (not that many would be interested) ...:
- woke up at 6.15 am this morning, hehheheh (of course i did) the blog exists so far ;-), well i got up and finally brushed my teeth (something i had been meaning to do for a while now (kidding) :-), took a shower, got ready etc... etc... etc... u know how the drill is for those who work on a Thursday ..... shite isn't it... but hey what can anyone really say ...
- i drove down to work listening to listening to good old Frank Sinatra (i do love his music) reached my destination and went into the office by then it was 7.43 am
- walked into my department and then ppl started trickling in one by one.... i said hi and good morning skimmed through the morning papers
- OK...... now comes the interesting part ... i have this habit (now some may find it thoughtful and some may find it annoying) ... every now and then i send sms's to all of my close friends first thing in the morning or sometimes at some point in the day.... just to tell them that they are important to me and that i haven't forgotten or am not ignoring them .... (i think its nice) especially looking at every ones life style ... ppl are just too busy for anything ... don't u agree?!?!?!
- during all this ppl, dont worry i am doing work .... there is a phrase .. jack of all trades and master of non.... hahahahaa that is what i like to believe that i am.....multi tasking is what i do....:)
- i even wrote this .....
this all came about after i checked out some of the other bloggs and finally realised that there isn't a standard of what a blogg should be like its basically more like an online diary or is one ... what ever way it is looked at its there for us .... i liked the way many have personalised their bloggs ... hopefully will end up doing that to mine ... am still a new born in the blogg world (ohhhh so sweet) ;-)
As for my plans for the for the weekend ....
- go walking on the beach (have decided need a new sexier look.... ahhh such vanity again) hehehe no no seriously need to shed a few of those SFC short for Sexy Fat Cells ....
- then am supposed to be meeting up with a few friends .... now i hate choosing but it all depends if i havent died by the time i work the SFC's (they are such stubborn bastards)
- then home and bed i have to have a so called Early night since i have a a work shop on something to my interesting to the rest of the world not in my field would find it boring....starting at 8 am agggghhhh i so wanted to sleep but hey what to dooooo....
ppl i still love my life ..... ;-) have a lovely day.... to be continued......
Wednesday, March 21, 2007
Mothers Day......she said thank u for making me a MOM!!
and here i am discovering that posting on here has given me the 2nd writers block i have faced... quite bizzare since on of the reasons of creating the blog was so that i may over come my initial writers block that i am facing with the novel that i am still in the process of completing.... and hopefully will finish....
the only positive thing about today is that it is mothers day... now we all agree that most of us have the best moms in the world .. there are very few who would disagree.. as far as i am concerned and i am bias.... i i have always claimed my moms the bestest in the wide world... well u know what all moms are the best ... just so that i don't make anyone upset especially today....
as usual i went shopping (mind you, something i hate doing.. ) unless it is a necessity.. which this was i mean come on i would do anything for my mom so anyway... i went i got her a few things got the gifts wrapped and wanted to sneak them into the house ... so that at the stroke of 12 , midnight i would give them to her now she was out side the house seeing of a friends of hers and i had just driven in and she wondered why i was waiting anyway she saw the gifts and the whole surprise had been ruined but she was on top of the world and loved her gifts but before all she told me when i told what the presents were for she said:"baby, you shouldn't have your my mothers day gift.... and thank u for making me a mom, and a very proud one as well" ....
and of course i said:" if we had the concept of multiple lives in Islam then i would pray that she would always be my Mother...fore a better mother i could never have asked for ... "
i think i will end this blog for now ..... and maybe keep u updated on how i spent my mothers day with my mom....
I am A Queen But Do I Have the Power?
After hours of pondering i realised with some degree of certainty that what shall be created here will be a form of art.....hmmmm so much confidence i thought to myself was not a good sign... and this is where it all begins ...
so come my friends, and give me your hand so i may take u into my world..... it is very beautiful over there........
note .. memoirs of an omani princess created by myself... however i was facing a small technical problem so am starting a fresh....

































